Princess Mia’s Guide to Overcoming Awkwardness

Aside from being portrayed by Anne Hathaway, one of our favorite things about Princess Mia is how she conquered her fears and went from an awkward 15-year-old to the ruler of Genovia in The Princess Diaries. Along with Mia, we learned some valuable lessons, like how to give a speech on how to become a princess. Looking to overcome awkwardness? Here are 6 tips straight from the film:

When you make a speech, don’t look at the audience.

This first bit of advice actually comes from Mia’s mother. If you’re nervous about giving a speech, pick a spot on the back wall, don’t take your eyes off it, and speak clearly. If you follow these simple rules, you’ll be capable of anything (even running a country).

Try not to barf on the guests.

You know what’s awkward? Barfing all over somebody. So, when you’re feeling the urge to purge, either take deep breaths, or run as fast as you can in the opposite direction. While running from your problems isn’t always the best advice, it is in this case.

When in doubt, make funny faces.

Sure, it isn’t the most lady-like thing to do, but it does lighten the mood a bit–especially when you’re in the midst of princess training. Not in the mood to contort your face? Dancing works too.

Take criticism with grace.

If there ever comes a time in your life when you’re in the public eye and facing criticism, the best thing to do is to stay calm, put a smile on, and take it with grace. Things happen, and there’s no reason to freak out.

Try something new.

Whether it’s a new hairstyle, hobby, or outing with friends, sometimes the best way to break out of your shell of awkwardness is to do something you’ve never done before. Of course, there’s a possibility something will go wrong, but that doesn’t mean you shouldn’t live your life to the fullest.

Embrace who you’re meant to be.

One of the most important lessons Mia learned actually came from her father at the end of the film. He tells her that “Courage is not the absence of fear, but rather the judgment that something is more important than fear.” So, if like Mia you’re unsure of yourself, think about the positives and take a leap of faith.